Dates Can’t Be All That Bad
I remember the first time a landed a date with a beautiful girl. I thought I had everything planned perfectly, but, just like any other beginner in the scene, I still managed to make a fool of myself. ‘Every small detail counts’, I toldmyself. From then on, dates have become more fun and easier. I also got to getmore dates with pretty women because of my newfound confidence and ability to make the most out of every situation.
Feeling Good for Yourself
I started by thinking the opposite way. Instead of constantly thinking about the butterflies in my stomach and acceptingthat I was indeed the luckiest guy in the world for having the chance to go out with a particular woman, I gave myself the benefit of being the opportunity-giver. I now began to feel and think like ‘Wow! She’s so lucky to go out with me.’ Always give yourself credit by knowingthat you are just the same or even better than the person you are about to go on a date with, regardless of how beautiful she is.
I invested in a handful of materials as well to boost my appearance, appeal and ego such as designer perfumes and leather wallets. I find that these are subtle changes that gave me a heightened sense of self-appreciation. I started feeling more handsome and attractive, thereby also generating the same effect on my dates.
The Early Bird Gets the Worm
Assessing the possibilities and getting ready for sudden changes is very important if you want to have the best time. I have a plan B or even a plan C just in case things do not turn out the way as I expected. This can efficiently be accomplished by preparing early on. When contacting restaurants, I would set a second or third place and get them ready just in case my first reservations didn’t gowell.
Clothes need to be picked early on too, so you avoid spending hours in front of the mirror. Work out days before the date and even prepare a few great topics for conversation. It is my rule that one should never be late on the first date. Give the impressionthat you care about the occasion by being about 5 to10 minutes early and being physically and financially prepared. Arrange your credit cards and cash in designer wallets to avoid shuffling or debating who pays what.
Be Yourself
Tell jokes, laugh heartilyand stay comfortable in your own skin. One of the worst ways you can ruin a great time is by being so conscious about your actions. Your date will most likely do the same so both of you are actually spending more time trying to impress yourselves instead of each other. Just maintain proper mannersbut learn how to unwind and relax. The idea of a date is to let both of you get to know about each other better. A magic wallet can be a pretty fun item to break the ice.
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