Approaching Women Is Always A Gamble – Are You Going To Ante Up?
Most guys like to gamble every now and then. Some like to bet on sports, racing, or even their own physical prowess. It’s fun! What the average guy does NOT particularly like to gamble on, though, is the outcome when trying to meet or approach women. Most guys would rather shell out a few bucks than have to feel rejected or put off.
So in many cases, this leads to guys needing to come up with a way to approach girls that involves no risk. Well, you can always have your friends pre-screen every chick you want to date! Sure –your friend could ask her! “Hey – this dude over there thinks you are hot – wanna hook up with him?” OR – you could do like I did the first time I ever wanted to ask a girl out. I sent her a note that said, “Will you be my girlfriend? Check one. Yes No”. Hey – give me a break, it was 6th grade!
Ok, so maybe those ideas aren’t so great. In fact, they are downright wussie. It’s easy to see that, though, when you are reading it in black and white.
My point is, there is no way to approach a woman without taking a chance. Developing a mentality of never taking a risk creates a habit of being timid and average. Being average is NOT attractive to girls . Women want a guy who can create attraction for them, and that means being a compelling, secure, authoritative man comfortable in your own skin.
There are a couple things you can do to minimize the impact of rejection. One thing is to use a little Cocky Comedy. The other thing is to not take rejection so seriously.
Cocky Funny is a technique for meeting girls developed by David Deangelo. What is it? Cocky Funny uses humor to approach women that not only minimized the likelihood of rejection, but also elevates attraction but establishes you as the alpha male. What you do is you start busting on her from the minute you meet. Joke with her, bust on her, keep her on edge – and this will create attraction for her.
For example, tell her that you noticed she is nursing holding her pinky out when she drinks like she is in a ballroom. Or tell her she is too short to have such a big glass. Bust on her clothes, her height (NEVER HER WEIGHT!!!) her shoes, her laugh – whatever comes to mind. Make it witty. And after that, you give her a sign using body language that shows her you are interested in her.
So you get it? You bust on her verbally – then with your body language tell her you are attracted to her. It works like a charm.
Nothing you ever do in life is going to be without risk. Even crossing the street is a risk. But being rejected by a woman is certainly a little less dramatic than getting run over by a semi, don’t you think? You are always in charge of how you react in a situation. If you go too far and give her the red-ass? Well – too bad, she was probably a little fruit. Anyway – for more information on meeting women, click the hyperlink and read more!
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