Approach Women Fearlessly
Today we are working with the eBook “Approach Women Fearlessly.” Here is today’s practice.
1. Download the eBook here:
http://www.yousendit.com/transfer.php?action=batch_download&batch_id=V1NCMFhrMVgrV3pIRGc9PQ
2. Read and make note of the sections that make sense, or raise questions for you.
3. Review and answer the following 3 questions from your own experience.
* How many people do you talk to on a regular basis? Is there anyone you wish you could talk to that you’ve avoided? If so, why?
* List all of your worst fears on what might happen if you approach people, especially if you approach the girls you want, and it goes horribly, terribly wrong. Let your imagination go on this. Give your fears some room to run and play outside your head. If you can imagine talking to a cute girl could cause you to have a massive heart attack, write it. Get these fears out on the page, and you may find they don’t look as serious as they feel when trapped in your head.
* Reflect on your life and remember a time, just one specific occasion when you had no trouble at all being social and friendly. It may be a memory from childhood. Maybe a good day at school. Perhaps a family event. Maybe it was your birthday. Remember this event, and close your eyes and lock in as much detail as you can. See it, taste it, smell the air and listen to the sounds. Feel it in your body as you relive this memory of being unthinkingly social. This is what it means to be in your body. Remember this as vividly as you can, and you will be able to return to this place any time you want when you wish you could be more social. Anchor yourself to this spot in memory.
4. Review and complete the following 3 exercises.
* Stand in front of your mirror, look at yourself in your left eye, and introduce yourself to YOURSELF. Have a polite conversation with yourself as if you are a stranger (in many ways, you are). Ask the questions you wish someone would ask. Give yourself the compliment you wish someone would give. Have the conversation you wish you could have.
* Approach and talk to one person today that you have seen on a regular basis but never had a conversation with. Say simply something like, “I’ve seen you before, but never introduced myself. I’m YOURNAMEHERE.” Then shake hands, give a smile, and proceed as you wish.
* Approach one person and ask for direction for a place you know perfectly well how to find. It can be any one person, but you have to engage them, listen carefully, and be able to get their attention in order to ask. Bonus points if you can manage to politely interrupt this person while they are engaged in something else (talking on the phone, in conversation, reading, etc.)
5. Record your results and questions, and post them here on the LVO3 Forum (http://www.websitetoolbox.com/mb/gettinggreatgirls) if you need feedback or wish you share what you’ve discovered.
As always, have fun with it. It’s a game. Have fun, damnit!
Peace,
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