Can Good Humor Be Learnt?
Can good humor be learnt?
Certainly good humor can be learnt! But how? Humor requires wisdom, but more importantly, self-confidence.
If a person is of low status and his words carry no weight, then it would be difficult for him to deliver his humor.
Similarly, if a person is arrogant, speech overbearing, then he too has the difficulty to have his humor well received.
Firstly, a person of low status needs to have self confidence and, secondly, wisdom.
A low status person might only have wisdom but not self confidence, contrary, a person of high status may have self confidence but lack of wisdom totally.
Good humor can not be discovered from these two categories of people!
Humor news from Russian President Vladimir Putin:
One day in Autumn, 2002, Russian President Vladimir Putin received a letter from a child. In the letter the child said that when the president wears the safety helmet he does not look good and hoped that he won't wears it anymore. The child wrote the letter because some time ago, President Putin followed the company's safety rule to wear the safety helmet and inspected a petroleum company. The child watched it and insisted the president don't wear the helmet anymore.
President Putin replied the child immediately, "Dear child, I am glad to received your letter. Of course I knew I don't look good with the helmet. But that is where the production scene, it will be very dangerous if I don't wear the safety helmet. I realized that my head is much more important than my face and after deal consideration."
If wisdom is congenital, and cannot be possibly learnt, then humorous can only be met occasionally and cannot be demanded intentionally.
Also, if self confidence is congenital and also cannot be possibly learnt, then humor will definitely be envied and cannot be imitated.
Do you know that, regardless of wisdom or self confidence, it has no connection with the instinct. Wisdom can be trained and self confident can definitely be cultivated.
One of the effective way to learn and cultivate humor is through good humor comics and funny jokes reading. By doing so, the priceless humor will be formed slowly inside you. You will not only please yourself by laughing at them, and will also be infected and stimulated by the flash of wisdom in humor. Sooner or later, you will find that your attitude towards the life changed gradually. Moreover, you will make some small jokes in normal casual conversations, by then, humor has already started to plant its seeds in your heart.